I won’t elaborate sirWhat do you mean by that? Please explain.
I won’t elaborate sirWhat do you mean by that? Please explain.
I have plenty of time to hear.I won’t elaborate sir
Make your move! Tell her in no uncertain terms that you want her to leave this other guy and you want her back. Make it very clear that what she did NEVER happens again. Be strong, definite, let her know you want her and this other guy can go to hell. Be the alpha and watch your opposing alpha limp away to bachelorhood.Wanted to follow up on a certain situation I brought up a while ago. A certain someone reached out on HER birthday and it messed with my head.Sounds like things aren't going well with the new guy and something happened. She was very flirty, told me she's been thinking of me and wanted to reach out but is STILL choosing the new guy despite it all and isn't leaving him yet either. Told her I'm not gonna be her back up plan nor can I be friends with her. Not gonna let her have her cake and eat it too and I honestly wish I knew who the guy was at this point so I could tell him his girlfriend is going behind his back to emotionally cheat with her ex. Such a strong and stable relationship they got going on there...
They really make things more complicated than they need to beShe was very flirty, told me she's been thinking of me and wanted to reach out but is STILL choosing the new guy despite it all and isn't leaving him yet either.
Make your move! Tell her in no uncertain terms that you want her to leave this other guy and you want her back.
I basically told her this but in a less aggressive way. The conversation was cordial but when I asked if she was still with the guy and why she was reaching out to me, she said "yes and he can be friends with his ex, I can't be with mine?". I told her no I can't be friends if that's what shes after because I still have feelings for her. She said "No I'm just saying" as if she was trying to justify to herself why reaching out was ok.Make your move! Tell her in no uncertain terms that you want her to leave this other guy and you want her back. Make it very clear that what she did NEVER happens again. Be strong, definite, let her know you want her and this other guy can go to hell. Be the alpha and watch your opposing alpha limp away to bachelorhood.
They really do.They really make things more complicated than they need to be
Pretty much, that's why I put a boundary in place and told her I'm not being Plan B. If she truly does miss me, she needs to drop him and choose me but that seems like its not happening (if at all) anytime soon.Seems like a bad idea given the circumstances. Cut the dead weight loose and move on, it's easy and your life isn't centred around their whims. If they can't show you some respect then you've got to respect yourself.