Many people are bisexual but mostly swing one way or the other predominantly. And for that reason, they often ignore any feelings they may have towards the same sex because they have a stronger feeling for opposite sex that they just assume they're straight and those other feelings are something else and ignore them. Especially with all the nonsense about being 'normal' and gay being wrong etc., it's very easy to stuff those feelings away for the sake of convenience and fitting in as you grow up through puberty and young adulthood.

Now that you may have had time to bond with a member of the same sex and begin to have feelings for them, the feelings you may have for them may make more sense now and make you begin to question your sexuality.

So in most likely cases, you're just bisexual with a bigger preference for the opposite sex in a general sense. But, you kinda have a crush or an intimate connection or feelings towards someone of the same sex you've been close to lately or something. (I don't suggest to know the details of your relationship with said person)

Don't worry, i won't be the guy who goes tmi in a public forum. Yeah, i've been thinking about this for awhile, its just kind of scary cause i'm really not used to feeling like i do for someone of the same gender. Then again, who's ever really prepared for somthing like that the first time around, lol.

It just takes time. Hell took me till I was 28 to "fully" embrace it and I've had those feelings since I was like 11. But, then again, for the majority of those years it wasn't nearly as acceptable to be gay as it is currently.

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Yea, it's complicated. I ended up falling in love with my best friend. He knows. I feel bad about it lol Just don't want it to ruin our relationship. I mean he knows I'm asexual so it doesn't bother him, or so he says. Just get worried cuz he means a lot to me

I had a crush on a friend once when I was 23 and first came out. He was really nice about it which made me like him even more. Needless to say my inexperience with being able to tell someone I'm into them along with my years of repression and his friendliness about it all lead to me hitting on him one too many times until it hurt the friendship.

I was too "new" to all the feelings and expressions at the time and didn't have the self control you learn through puberty by being able to openly discuss those feelings with peers and others.

So take it from me, be appreciative of a friend willing to accept you. Just know he's not interested and don't push him about it. Just accept it and try to find someone else for love purposes.

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Ya, there's nothing to push really. I love him enough to not do anything stupid and as long as he's happy I'm happy. Really all I'm looking for is for him to stay the same and for our relationship to stay the same. Sure there are a few other things I wouldn't mind but they're not important enough to push hah

I'm sorry that your friendship took a hit as well. Never easy

No worries. I'm long since over it. Glad you're level headed enough to know where you stand and not risk ruin it. Hope you're able to find someone that you can pursue in the right ways though to make you happy :)

Thanks I appreciate it. It'll be a tough journey but I'm in no rush and things will be if they are meant to be.

Just thought I'd drop in and say hi seeing as I fit in to the title of the thread.

So, hi all!!


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